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Dear Heloise: I totally agree with not answering a spam call because they usually ask for our personal information. But just as a heads-up: I received a blocked call back to back, and I didn't answer the first few times. But when I did answer, it was from the emergency room in a major hospital. The doctor was trying to inform me of my fiance's death. However, because of HIPPA, by law, they couldn't tell me this information over the phone. The doctor just said, "He's very sick. Can you please come to the hospital?"
After I collected myself at the hospital, I asked why the call was blocked. I was told that sometimes, the numbers from certain businesses, hospitals, and even doctor's offices may come across as blocked, spam and/or unavailable.
Now this happened in 2008, and right at this moment, I have a relative in a major hospital. Phone numbers have come through normally and sometimes blocked. So, yes, ignoring calls may work because none of us wants to be questioned or set up for a scam, but I just wanted to share my own personal experience for awareness. Be safe. Thank you, Heloise, for all that you do! -- Felicia P., in Houston
Dear Heloise: Recently, you ran a brief letter about the concern of elderly people adopting young animals and the pet being abandoned when the pet parent dies. There are several groups who rescue senior pets in crisis, and there are groups who adopt out senior pets for senior people. Some even help with vet bills for senior citizens. Please let your readers know about them!
They can just google "senior pets for senior people" or something similar, and they'll find several local groups. I think it's a wonderful option. -- Lynda H., via email
Lynda, thank you for this hint. There's nothing sadder than dumping a homeless pet somewhere and driving off. It's a living creature that needs food, water, shelter, and a loving home. It gave its former owner love and comfort, so return the favor by making sure that the animal has a good future with people who'll provide care to it. -- Heloise
Dear Heloise: Our shower takes a while for the water to heat up. Instead of watching the water go down the drain, my husband had a great idea to put a bucket under the running water until it gets warm. We use the cold water for the birds and plants outside. Easy and a win-win! -- Paula and Barry, in Omaha, Nebraska
Send a money-saving or time-saving hint to Heloise@Heloise.com. I can't answer your letter personally but will use the best hints received in my column.